Usually, I’d write this down, but today I decided that I wanted to put it out here on the internet – let’s see where this takes me. This will be my manifestations for the next 3-4 months.
Financial
How much do you make monthly?
12k a month easily.
What does your home look like?
Bright interior with floor-to-ceiling windows. Alot of wood elements and white elements so that it feels cosy. The bed is super huge and I can starfish easily with space at the sides of the bed. There is a washing machine and I get to decide my own laundry days. This home might be temporary and it is okay. I enjoy everyday and every moment living in this space. I have a dressing table for me to do my makeup in the mornings under good lighting. A wardrobe just nice for the clothing that I have on hand. A bath tub that I use weekly to relax in. A speaker with music that plays once I wake up and before I go to bed at night. Housekeeping comes to clean my place for me every single day.
Where am I living?
In Bangkok, thong lor or ekkamai area.
Career
Where are you working?
From Bangkok, for 1 or 2 months, or however long I’d like. I am remote working for a job that pays SGD to me. I work from BKK time 8am to 5pm.
What kind of work are you doing?
As a product marketing manager, I create gtm strategies, I work closely with sales and customer success, as well as with the key leaders and the C-team in the company to ensure that we are meeting the product needs of our market. We are a platform that serves the needs of our customers well and is very popular.
On the side, I work on my freelance work as well as work on podcasting. The page I have is growing fast and well.
What kind of impact are you creating?
Making the lives of whoever using our product easier and better on a daily basis. They appreciate the good energy and great product our company has to offer.
My podcast reaches out to audiences in Singapore and Bangkok. People thinking of moving also listen to this podcast. People who want their loneliness to have a partner find this podcast and it helps them heal in the times when they need it the most.
Recreation
What do you do in your free time?
Exploring the different parts of Bangkok, learning to speak Thai, making friends, and building a community – creating a life from scratch that curates what and who I want in it. Picking up boxing and pilates.
What hobbies are you working on?
Learning a new language, pilates, listening to podcasts, and reading consistently.
Wellness
How are you nourishing your mind, body and soul?
By going ahead and completing the ‘what-ifs’ in my head, by doing things even when I am fearful, going for long runs and heading to the gym consistently, taking time alone to process things and enjoy my own company
What foods are you eating? How do you stay fit?
I eat clean food as much as I can, enough protein to build my muscles, take my pills and green juice on time, go to the gym and for pilates classes regularly, read regularly, and learn daily to ensure growth of both my mind and body.
Relationships
What are your relationships like?
Friendships: Honest, authentic, and fun. Pushes me to try new things and learn new things. Grows together with me. Has healthy debates and insights on the conversations that we have together.
Partner: Honest, authentic, pushes each other to grow, I can be myself around him, we each do things on our own and come together to share what we learn at the end of the day, loves me for who I am, has the same kinks as me, sex is great as we consistently please each other, have each other in mind in all our future goals together.
Family: Consistent love and support for each other, everyone is happy and healthy, boundaries are respected and space is given for everyone to grow and learn.
Work: I am great at my job and although speaking to most of my colleagues online, we are able to maintain a really nice and healthy online relationship. We stay updated on each other’s lives and the milestones in each other’s lives. Respect and space are given at any point in time and time is carefully used when we speak with each other.
How often do you see friends?
Depending on what I need at any point in time, I might see friends once a week or I might see them daily when the holiday period rolls around and my friends start to come to bangkok to see me!
Personal Life
What kind of goals are you working towards?
Learning to become more honest with myself on a daily basis, learning to fall in love with life daily, learning to be more consistent in listening to my gut instincts, and going ahead to do whatever I want to do right now, instead of just waiting for the ‘right’ moment.
What are your habits and values?
Habits: Discipline, consistency, pushing myself to do things even with fear, hanging around people who lift me up, talking positively to myself.
Values: Honesty, Kindness, Authenticity, Loving. Being a present-in-the-moment kind of person. Aligning my values with my environment and the kind of people I surround myself with.
Community
What kind of communities are you a part of?
One that values love and authenticity, people who show up even when they are fearful, inspiring people, helping women lean into their authenticity without guilt, people interested in self-growth.
How are you helping others?
By leading by example, by pushing myself daily to do what I say I want to do and achieve, by living a true, authentic life.
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